My friend is having a termination for medical reasons. She's also our lodger, so will be coming back here after she gets out of hospital.
Is there anything I can do that will help? E.g. is she likely to need anything like inco pads, or will mat pads be enough? I don't know what to expect, and don't want to make things worse for her by grilling her about what she wants. It's over 20 weeks (due to various delays & fuckups), but I don't know if I should expect it to be like a full-term birth or not.
We also have a toddler which feels worse, like it's rubbing her face in it IYSWIM. Had been keeping the baby clothes for her, had just given her some maternity clothes before she had the bad news.
Basically, what should I do to avoid making a shitty situation even harder for her?
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friend having TFMR - what should I expect?
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cantmakeitbetter · 21/03/2014 21:30
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