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I have a relative whose 7 year old DD is in the elite squad at their local gymnastics club. This little girl has been in the squad for over a year now, and in that time my relative's unease about the treatment of her DD and the other girls has been growing. Neither of us adults have any previous experience of high level gymnastics, or any other sport, so we have no comparison but things really feel off.
The girls in the group are all 7/8 years old, and do ten hours training a week, split over three days, two evenings and one weekend, so gym is a very big part of their life. Every session they do what I think is called stretching and conditioning where they stretch the girls joints beyond what they find comfortable, this apparently normally ends in several of the girls in tears, the girls who cry are told off for making a fuss.
If the girls do something "wrong", such as spending too much time in the toilet or talking when they're not meant to be, the coaches give them the "hairdryer" treatment, shouting right into their faces. Often when one girl does something wrong or fails to do what she's asked to do the whole group will be punished, something like if one girl fails a certain physical task the group will have to do thirty push ups. If one girl fails to do the whole thirty the group will be forced to do ten more. Some girls are in tears several times every session.
There seems to be no compassion or empathy from the coaches that these are young children, but the coaches are all gymnasts barely out of their teens themselves and I assume they were coached this way so to them I guess it's "normal". One girl was taken out recently by her parents, according to my relative this girl now hates going to school, cries when left and won't go to any extra curricular activities at all because of the treatment she had at gym. However most of the other parents are perfectly happy with what the coaches are doing as their girls are progressing, and the squad as a whole is very successful in winning in competitions.
As an outsider my feeling is my relative should take the child out now, before any more damage is done, but she is a very good gymnast and as I said the start, I don't know if this is just routine for this kind high level competitive sport. I know that if my DCs were being treated like this at school I'd be making an official complaint at the very least, but this is something I know nothing about.
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Is this normal for gymnastics, or are these coaches being abusive?
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NameChange2OO · 27/04/2015 12:31
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