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Sounds normal to me. My DD and DS have been playing violin and cello for just over a term and only recently began using bows. They do one lesson a week at school and played two songs in the Christmas concert. It sounded pretty rubbish when they practiced at home, but actually sounded good when they were accompanied by other pupils and the music teachers.