which martial art for non-sporty dc?

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Looking for ideas please, dd (age8) is completely non-sporty, not competative, and has some personality issues (+ I think she's dyspraxic) Martial arts have been suggested but just looking for recommendations judo, karate, any others? we have something called hapkido which I hadn't come across until recently (but it's closest )

So I'd be grateful for any comments please (sorry about awful typing ds eating keyboard as I type)