Have been summoned onto this thread via my spies...
I'm a women's health physio and am in a grumpy mood, so, brace yourselves...
Some facts. Like, evidence based facts (the sciencey bit?):
- All loss of bladder control is abnormal.
- 1:3 women aged 35-55 wet themselves.
- 70-80% of simple stress incontinence can be cured in 3 months by doing pelvic floor exercises.
and...
- when you run there is x3 your body weight rattling up your leg into your pelvic floor with every single step that you take.
So. Even if you are a 7 stone weakling, that's 21 stones of pressure on your muscles.
Add to that the weight of your guts bouncing on top of the pelvic floor. And, factor in that they get tired (some folk are fine running 5k, but wee themselves trying to get to 10k) along with the rest of you, running on pavements in unsuitable trainers, too soon after having a baby when your ligaments are still all stretchy, and, well, this is why you leak.
It frustrates me to read threads like this where women accept that they piss themselves. It's a failure of my profession - we simply aren't getting the message across that beign incontinent is not an inevitable consequence of ageing or becoming a parent. Men bloody wouldn't put up with "oh, you're a daddy now, you'll just have to pad up and die a little inside".
Anyhoo.
Cure:
- Hold for a count of 10 seconds. Imagine you are bursting for the loo and trying to "hold on". That feeling is you working your pf. Clench for 10 secs, when you let go you should feel a "drop". No "drop" into your gusset and you've lost the contraction, so work on it! 10 seconds is a magic number as there's a reflex inhibition of your urge to pee, basically, it'll buy you more time before you HAVE to go.
- 10 quick flicks. Same contraction as #1, only "on, off, on, off, on, off etc". This is for the fast twitch fibres, the ones that should work when you do something foolish like jump on a trampoline.
- 3 floors - imagine you've got a lift in your vagina (I know, it's a weird thing, but, it works) Take the lift from the first, to 2nd, to 3rd floor and back down again. It's a mula bhanda from yoga - works a treat.
Do those 3 exs, x3 day for 3 months. Keep breathing when you do them, holding your breath is cheating. If you get pain, stop. If you're not sure what you're doing, either have a look with a handmirror (you'll see your fanjo sort of lift as you do the contraction) or bung something willing into your vagina and give it a squeeze. NHS recommends a finger, but, there's no research that says it absolutely HAS to be a finger - just something to squeeze. Whatever motivates you's good.
The problem is one of compliance, you'll forget. I use twitter as a training tool - @gussiegrips, I tweet, you twitch your twinkle.
I'd love MN to run this as a campaign - incontinence interferes with every single aspect of your life. At the moment, it might just be interfering with your dreams of running a marathon - but, these things progress and eventually your fanny can fall right out (yep, that's what a prolapse is, a degree or another of an inverted vagina. Google image if you want to scare yourself)
Oh, and the mooncup thing works. There's some research in the states suggesting that if you are doing exercise where you're wearing a sports bra then you should also be using internal support. Like an incostress, which is a silicone tampon thingie - it works by wodging everything up there and providing a support for your bladder. You can buy them from Boots online, or direct from the company - I'm not an employee, but, it is good evidence based gadget, about £30. She used to do a discount if you mentioned that Gussie sent you - might be worth asking!
//www.incostress.com
And, I disagree with the GP's suggestion that if it makes you pee it also strengthens. If it makes you pee it's stressing your poor wee pf. Hmmph.
So. In short. Yep, there's loads you can do. Don't put up with it, you really don't have to. If the exs don't help, get referred.