Hello everyone. I'm just writing my Christmas cards, something I struggle with anyway and one of my friends husband committed suicide a few months ago and I want to put some message or maybe something simple like 'big hug'. So any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
My DH died in July and the best card I've received so far said:
Although we known this isn't the Christmas you'd wished for, we hope you at least have a peaceful time and know that we are thinking of you and DH.
Don't say anything about happy Christmas, merry Christmas.. Etc. I've had cards ignoring DH death and to be honest that's just pissed me off. Acknowledge whats happened to her, Christmas will be completely awful for her but you acknowledging that will mean a lot.