My son has recently decided to sell his Xbox, but found it was missing. After some investigating on his part, he has discovered who stole it and the boy has admitted to stealing it. Rather than involve the police, I spoke via mobile to his mum, who agreed to pay us what the boy sold it for. She told us to go to her house the next morning to collect the money. However, on arrival she took a very different stance and said that she felt we were blackmailing her son by demanding money not to go to them. She offered my son £20 or a replacement second hand Xbox, which my son refused and got quite aggressive and sweary with her. She told me to phone the police, which I then did, but only PCSO's turned up, and basically after speaking with both parties, they backed the other mum up, offered my son £20 or a replacement. Now, the friend sold it for £30, which means that he's made a tenner from stealing someone else's gear and he's not being punished, isn't sorry in any way, and I've had to pay my own son £30 just to calm him down, and the other lad's mum is supposed to be getting a replacement for me. The PCSO said that there was no point in taking things further as my son should have been more careful who he lets in his room (the boy was a friend!) and he should take the money or replacement. The other lad hasn't apologised for the theft, he hasn't been reprimanded by the police or anything, in fact my son was reprimanded for losing his temper and swearing at the other mum, and rightly so, but I feel completely let down and angry about this situation. So does my son. Does anyone have any advice on how we can get the other lad punished for theft? The police really weren't interested.
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