Sorry to drip feed, but don't really know where to start.
I had dd at 17, and have bought her up on my own from there, I contemplated having a termination but couldn't bring myself to go through with it. Dd was a lovely healthy happy child untill aged 5 when I noticed she wasn't walking as well as the other children .
Nearly 4 years later she's wheel chair bound, ith slurred speech, hearing, sight impairments. Unable to feed herself etc etc, she was diagnosed with 'something genetic' which is causing her cerebellum to degenerate & will get progressivly worse.
The doctors can't find the exact gene that's caused this, but have said the chances are high if I have any more children they'd have the same condition.
So I had that disgusting tummy bug at the end of november & have just found out my pill failed & I'm 7 weeks pregnant.
I'm booked in for a consultation re a termination Monday. I know its the right thing to do in so many ways, but I just don't know if I can do it. To to it all off my partner is being an arse about it, and point blank refuses to talk to me about it, or come to the appointment.
Is this something that's going to tear me apart the rest if my life? Or will it get easier? I know I've got to do this,but I really don't want too.
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chocolatecakeystuff · 18/01/2013 14:03
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