so, not to many details in case RL intervenes but the basics:
I am a senior manager in tiny company - there are only 20 of us, there are two MDs to whom I report. they are both fairly brusque individuals, hard to get on with but we manage. One of them seems to have a bit of a superiority complex (he is very clever, but boy does he relish reminding everyone)which I can generally take. I've always managed. They piss me off periodically and I get irate about things but I get over it.
My GP wanted to sign me off for stress recently after one particular incident that I found difficult to deal with (basically he humiliated me over a stupid thing in a meeting) but I decided to stick it out. Last week there was another incident, this time in writing over email in which I was trying to be helpful about something and he retorted with a very superior response, basically putting me in my place and ensuring I would never challenge his superior judgement again.
Then yesterday, again in a meeting, when I mentioned that I wasn't happy with my laptop's performance (which I have reported on a number of occasions to no avail) he asked "oh what is it? don't you like the colour?" I was dumbfounded, though I don't know why as this is exactly the sort of stuff he does again and again. He always says something like "oh that was a joke" or "I shouldn't have said that" afterwards but I don't think that is any excuse. I didn't say anything there and then but I am starting to think I need to.
I've suffered from (probably stress induced) depression for about 18 mths and have had low self esteem for years but I have been working on helping myself over the past couple of years. Maybe I am now finally feeling confident/assertive enough to try to deal with this. I am totally sick of it.
any thoughts on what I should do , how I could approach this?
At the moment I just feel like emailing him and telling him exactly how I feel...possibly wouldn't be my wisest move! or maybe it would...
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