Hello everyone
I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions to help me deal with a boss who seems to be being a bit difficult about the period of time leading up to my maternity leave.
I will try and summarise as briefly as possible but basically he is a bit difficult at the best of times plus he is a bit old fashioned in his outlook and he is really not making things as easy as they could be at the moment. It's just a series of niggly things but they all add up to me feeling a bit fed up and stressed.
For example I asked him if we could revisit my objectives to take account of me going on maternity leave for part of the year. I have a very challenging full year's work in objectives assigned to me this year but because I will be on maternity leave for 4 months of the year I thought it was reasonable to review what's expected of me so I am clear on what I need to deliver before I go and so I'm not totally stressed by the feeling of having a year's worth of objectives to squeeze into 8 months. I know I will be blamed for not meeting objectives if this isn't clear. My lovely manager's response was that he disagreed my objectives need to be reduced because he is going to find someone to cover my maternity leave and they will pick up any unfinished objectives on my list.
Maybe it's me (in which case please tell me!) but isn't it reasonable to want to know what is expected of me in the time I have? Otherwise I will half kill myself trying to get everything done (not feasible or reasonable) or I will make my own judgement about what's reasonably achievable and will then get a hard time for not doing enough!
For me, he is not being helpful or reasonable. I should have one set of objectives and the person who replaces me should have a separate set so we are both clear on what's expected.
All thoughts gratefully received.
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Boss being difficult about pregnancy and lead up to maternity leave
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CookieMonster1 · 27/04/2009 20:58
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