I've been mulling over this for many months now. Am in a job which pays well, I am major breadwinner, but I am sick of working fulltime.
Put in a request to work at home one day a week last year, but was turned down on the basis that I manage a team and 'need to be there to supervise' which is quite frankly bo**ocks as they are all managers in their own right, and very self-motivated, AND it was just ONE day I'd be otu of the office FFS!
My company, although good in many ways, does not have a good record of granting part time/ flexible working requests beyond admin level (I am a senior manager in the dept...) I 'know' now that if I asked to go to 4 days it would almost certainly be rejected.
So I keep toying with the idea of leaving. Only problem is DH has his own business, works from home, and therefore his income is not quite enough to cover it, AND it feels more 'risky' than my 'big corporate' salary (although of course I could just as easily be made redundant tomorrow...)
I have 2 kids aged 2 and 5 and sometimes I just feel so painfully aware that if I don't do soemthing soon then I will miss out completely on my youngest's last years before starting schooll full time.
I'm just so worried I'll give up work and then in about a year regret it. And the likelihood of me finding a job as good as the one I have now, so close to home seems slim.
If I left I would probably try to set myself up in my own 'consultancy' as I am a specialist in the field I operate. DH says he has absolute confidence that I would do very well too - I am more worried that I am a bit lazy and would probably find it too demanding to do properly, together with the extra childcare /afterschool stuff I'd then be doing.
Has anyone done this and can convince me I'd be doing completely the RIGHT/ or WRONG thing???
I'd be interested to hear people's perspectives and experiences....
Sorry for such a long post, but I really need to try to sort this our in my mind to make a decision.
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Help me sort my work life out! Should I leave my job??
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TiredWife · 13/04/2005 11:27
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illatchristmas · 22/01/2024 20:04
@TiredWife It's now 8 years later and I found this thread when mulling over my (nearly identical) life dilemmas. What did you choose to do and how did it all turn out?
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