Hi 6 weeks pregnant with baby no 2 and already have a large belly, boobs and family say I look pregnant.
I have not even been to see a midwife let alone have a scan and was this weeek at a conferance in London with the entire salesforce from the UK plus all management.
A few rumours flew around mainly because I was not drinking and my boobs are big
I quashed them, but did tell a few close collegues who I trust not to tell.
On Thursday night- we where at a dinner and I was not drinking and my manager really probed me as to why I was not drinking- I told him I was on a diet and was not bothered about a drink as we where up early the following morning for work.
The next day he took me to one side and the conversation went like this
M: I want to ask you about you health and wellbeing- how are you?
Me: I am fine thanks why?
M: There are a few rumours flying around
Me: what kind of rumours?
M: About your health
Me: (pushing the issue as I was pissed off)- what rumours? I am fine, no problems and I am very well thaks
M: That you are expecting.....Are you?
Me: No I am not
M: You would tell me though wouldnt you?
Me: Well no actually Its up to me to tell you if and when I am- its my decision to make
M: Well you need to tell me so I can look after your health and safety
Me: I am fine and I dont want to discuss this anymore.
My job is in sales, does not involve any risk.My performance has not changed over the last few weeks and I am NOT ready to tell them yet.
I was sooooooo angry with him- I feel that he was pushing me into telling me something which I was not comfortable sharing.
If I wanted to tell him, I had had 2 days previous to share this and obv chose to keep schtum.
I do not have a personal relationship and dont feel comfortable about telling him this early.
Should I say something?
I work from home, so wont bump into him in an office- I am so mad about this
Please advise
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Manager trying to "persuade" me to tell him if I am pregnant- Is this legal?
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lilymolly · 19/07/2008 13:10
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