Hi Ladies, I need some urgent advice right now. DD (2.5 )was ill with a bug one Friday & i thought she will be alright during weekend. She refused to eat and kept pooing and by monday morning it still persisted. Took her to the doctor and put her back to nursery on the day. Doc said if she still doesn't eat next day have to take her to the hospital. Nursery told me she refused to eat and kept soiling herself so advice me to stay at home with her. i did on Tues. She won't eat and her diarrheoa didn't get any better. She hasn't ate anything friday afternoon so i took her to the hospital and they will put her on drips. I spoke to my manager every morning when i was off and he said it is ok and that family is more important than anything else. Anyway long story short i took the next day off coz hubby couldn't and there is a "special time off" rule we can take when your child is ill. After 2 days off, i went back to work,the management told me i have to put 2 days holidays to cover the 2 days i am off. I told them in the past i never have to do that and it is a known rule at work that i can leave if my child is sick and everybody practices it. My manager told me that it's ok to "leave work" if your child is sick and that i should just come into work to show my face for an hour then leave, or should have just call in sick myself. And nothing was written in our employee handbook that about this "special rule". So i don't know who is right or wrong. Since nothing was written on the manual, they can't penalised & make me the victim and change the rules whenever they like it. My manager was a nice guy really but our new director is something else. I save 2 days holidays for end of this month to do my christmas shopping and i am reluctant to give in my through no fault of mine. I am the only mother in this company, rest are fathers so they would not understand. should i give in my only 2 days holidays or is there anywhere i could prove to them i as a mother has rights when their child is sick. My manager knew very well i am not the type of person to take the mick out of the system but accordng to him, his has are tied. DD was ill before i still palmed her off to the nursery but this time she was really serious. I never thought of getting a sick note from the doctor either. Really confused and upset. Sorry for this long rambling message. Feeling down and advice from all experienced fulltime working mom will be very much appreciated. Thanks !!!
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DD had nasty bug Off for 2 days Work demanded i put my holidays in Advice needed
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822tinkerbell · 07/12/2007 13:23
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