Could you help me sort my head out? I am veering between thinking that I should give up work, and then changing my mind.
So...I've got 2 dc, aged 3.5 yo and 5 yo. Ds (3.5 yo) is at nursery in the mornings, dd (5 yo) has just started Yr 1. I went back to work when ds was 2. My dh's job is demanding but his hours aren't too long, compared to friends' dhs. I work 3 days a week. I'm also studying and preparing for a career in the future which I really want (something different to what I'm doing atm).
The thing is, I'm just soooo tired and stressed. Dh isn't very tidy / housework-orientated, so I do most / all of the housework / cooking / etc. Dd has got severe eczema and a raft of food allergies, and bless her, needs a lot of physical care. She also gets reading and writing practise to do every evening now and so I spend time with her on that. Ds is just a sweetheart, but I feel guilty that I'm not having enough fun with him because I'm always having to do jobs in the home or I'm at work.
At work, I'm doing a job which is enjoyable, working with teenagers, whom I really like being with. I'm working hours which are really family-friendly, and my job is a 5 min drive from where I live. I don't get paid megabucks, but if I were to give up, we'd feel the financial squeeze.
The crux of it is that I'm too over-streched, and I'm feeling it more and more - getting irritable and tetchy, suffering from insomnia, starting to resent all the stuff I do instead of enjoying it.
So is it worth the financial stress of not earning, in order to buy myself (literally) more time? I also wonder if not "working" outside the home would damage my confidence and make me less likely to fulfil my ambitions.
Sorry to be long and rambling...
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Roseylea · 28/09/2007 14:55
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