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My Manager is a twot. He made me cry today. Sympathy please.

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Oblomov · 19/07/2007 14:52

He has the personell skills of a gnat.
It is my wedding anniversary today. He called me over to " justify and explain" where these O/T hours came from.
I am contracted to 20 hrs. But he regulalry asks me to stay. Now he is quiblling over it. I phoned dh to tell him. And then I began to cry. Dh is livid. I give give give. Not any more.

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chevre · 19/07/2007 14:52

he is an arsehole.

happy anniversary.

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chevre · 19/07/2007 14:53

start keeping a record of everything he asks you to do outside your normal contract AND any incidences of bullying.

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edam · 19/07/2007 14:59

You are right, he's a twonk. Next time he asks you to stay late, smile sweetly and say NO, not if he's going to harass you over your timesheets.

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kneazlechick · 19/07/2007 15:01

Sounds horrid.

Don't let him spoil your anniversary.

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Oblomov · 19/07/2007 15:07

And when I say O/T, it is only paid at my normal rate. He asks me to do more, after month end. And it suits becasue sometimes I sometimes need to leave a bit early to take ..... ds to the 'eye hospital' for eg. But no more. I give and then get scruitinised, in return.
Dh is beside himself with anger.
Not good, when we have a posh dinner planned - do that once in a blue moon.
Am sobbing whilst typing. He is sucha twonk.

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fanella · 19/07/2007 15:13

What a dick.

~Work to rule from now on, start at precisley nine (or whenever you start) and finish at precisely the time you finish.

Happy anniversary, please try not to let it spoil your night. Can you and dh make a pact to forget about it tonight on the promise of raging about it tomorrow?

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pointydog · 19/07/2007 15:21

Sounds like it's too easy to make you feel guilty. Keep a record of when you arrive at work and when you leave so you can just show him. You really shouldn't be feeling guilty about this.

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Oblomov · 19/07/2007 15:26

Oh, I do pointydog, so when he queried me, I had all the answers to hand, I said, well after month end I had, 3 hrs etc etc and eventually he agreed my extra hours. But it was so painful. And I shouldn't have to do this. Surely ?

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flowerybeanbag · 19/07/2007 15:33

hi oblomov
no you shouldn't have to keep such detailed records of your overtime, but bottom line is if your boss is this rubbish you probably do have to.
Could you perhaps keep a table of your extra hours which is updated, say, weekly and shared with him so there is not an argument later on?
happy anniversary anyway

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pointydog · 19/07/2007 15:35

No you shouldn;t have to do it, he is a twat. But you should not feel guilty about it.

Can you just email him your hours once a week or something?

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Oblomov · 19/07/2007 15:38

Yes, calm down Oblomov. I WILL NOT LET HIM RUIN OUR WEDDING ANNIVERSARY. No, no no.
Feel better

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