I have meeting this pm with nightmare colleague from another department. She is a bully. She asked for the meeting and has been vague about the subject (but she is always vague). I tried contacting her to find out more, but is not in office.
Suspect it is about an area where we, to an extent, share responsibility and where she is being expected to take on more 'hand on' while I become more 'overview'. Also susoect she will try to get me to do more work that she shoudl be doing and agree with her about how it shoudl work in future.
My boss knows she is a bit of a challenge an dis keen I don't take on any more work.
I am useless at confrontation.
My boss has offered to come to the meeting too.
Do I accept the offer - which is what the wimp in me wants to do?
The other side of me thinks it will be awkward as the nightmare woman will know I have asked boss to be there and therefore know I am a wimp and it will seem confrontational. A part of me also thinks FFS you are nearly 30, grow some balls!!
Help! Meeting is lunchtime.
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Help Please! Decision needed!
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Tigana · 17/07/2007 11:15
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