Oh dear this is long, complicated and well, impossible right now.
I shall be as brief as possible and try not to ramble.
Prior to maternity leave in June I had some disputes with a memeber of staff, and some decisions made regarding my job/position at work/materrnity leave. I spent the last year trying to resolve, before returning to work in Feb after 6 months mat leave and 6 weeks annual leave. During this time, issues developed, and things occured, which I considered to be sex discrimination on grounds of pregnancy/maternity leave. I tried on numerous occasions to resolve the issues amicably without going down formal grievance route, as time consuming/stressful, just about to have a baby, advised by union rep not to do it for these reasons.
My mum was diagnosed with cancer in April/May, confirmed as terminal in May. Baby due in July, complications with pregnany, minor but stressful nonetheless.
After LO was born, job stuff changed again, measures in place through union were ignored, but I had so much stuff going on could not face formal route. Conitnued to try to resolve amicably.
In Jan this year my mum died. I was given 10 days compassionate leave, extended from 3 after I commented on the short amount. This was added on to annual leave.
In January I also put in formal complaint, after advice from a union member (unofficial) who said that although technically out of time, I had extenuating circumstances. My complaint was not dealt with or acknowledged for a while, and then mum died so was left for a bit, then I was telephoned to say an 'investigation' was taking place and I would be placed in a specific team until investigation dealt with. Nothing in writing, nothing formal.
So. Thats were we are. So, I contacted my 'temporary' line manager and asked to meet to discuss return to work. I have been off for almost a year in total to discuss phased return (I had been promised this) and to discuss changing hours under family friendly policy/flexible working hours....
Ok, its getting too long and complicated. To cut a long story a bit shorter. I had a home visit from line manager, HR advisor who was part of my complaint and a useless union rep after being signed off sick for in total 6 weeks. I felt pressured to state that I intended to return to work at the end of this sick note, and I was told the following:
There are no legal obligations to allow me time to breastfeed my baby even though she wont take a bottle, however I will be given an hour per day and any other time I will have to make up. LO will be in nursery so I will have to take another hour per day of my own time to go and feed her.
As my position was temporary, there was no scope for me to work from home one day per week to deal with the issue of breastfeeding (nursery next to my house, only an issue one/two days per week).
There was not way of determining when I would be placed into a permanent position, as it depended on the outcome of the grivance, and if I appealed the decision it would be held up even further. I felt this to be a 'suggestion' that if I wanted it dealt with more quickly I should accept the findings. This decision was up to the ACO and no-one else.
Although I can in usual circumstances be considered for flexible working (I want to do longer hours, shorter days), this cannot really be done whilst I am in a temp team, as whatever hours are agreed might not be appropriate for another teams operational needs. I would not be able to change my hours until the grivance has been concluded.
No-one brought a copy of the family friendly policy with them.
Basically, it feels like, as I have made a complaint I will be shoved in a team that is unable to provide any flexible working for me as a new mother. It feels like that as I have complained I am being made to suffer, like they are saying, deal with the greivance quickly and you can get back to working with a permanent role, and get your working choices considered, if you appeal, you are stuck in limbo.
Any advice/ideas/guidance? Its been going on for a year now and I still have no job of my own.
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PavlovtheCat · 29/03/2007 16:08
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