DH has been working at his place of employement for three years now. Originally he was training to be an engineer. While I was on maternity leave (our dd is 15 months old now) he transferred from the tools to the office as a salesman.
A few months ago, the current boss (my dad, which kind of complicated matters a little!) stepped down (retiring this year) and a new boss was brought in.
Obviously I hear things from both my dad and DH, but I really feel that this woman is over stepping the line and treating my DH unfairly.
She has:
- refused to let him have half a day off work to meet the insurance company after we were burgled without having it unpaid, but let another member of staff 'work from home' when his house was broken into (DH wasn't even offered this but the other guy was).
- rearrange meetings so that they clash for when he is due to pick me/dd up.
- requested that he pick dd up and return back to the office with her to discuss matters after standard work hours as it suited her.
- kicked him out the office when he was eating chips, but didn't bat an eyelid at the two members of staff eating chips the following day.
Among other things.
Today he has told me that on Thursday he might not be able to pick dd up from the cm as she has rearranged a meeting which will now not finish until six, and has question section after so he may not get home until seven. This is on a day that she knows I am at college, and on top of that it is two hours past his finishing time (when he went into the office he negotiated hours to work eight til half four, as I work eight til four and walk down to meet him).
I cannot skip college on Thurs as it is a week before my devolved assessment and I cannot afford the time off (forgive spelling mistakes in this as I should be studying and not time to proof read properly!!). She has told DH that we should have some emergency facilities to look after dd (my mum works shifts, my dad works at the same place as dh, my sisters work shifts, dh's family not always that reliable) and that my dh should be at the meeting regardless of what I / DD need.
While I appreciate that he should be attending meetings I feel that she maybe does not understand what it is like to have a family or a young child (she lives alone).
DH cannot work out if he is being over sensitive. I feel that she is out of line somtimes.
Am I being too sensitive? What would you suggest?