Looking for some advice please. I started a new job on 14/10 - a lovely little admin job, no stress, local, nice folk! - Apart from one guy who has been here 24 years and has made a few comments over the last few weeks. It's playing on my mind a little and making me feel uneasy when I am trying to feel settled.
Me and hubby are currently TTC and over the past 7 weeks the guy at work has mentioned his three deal breakers. They are Drugs, Alcohol and yep - pregnancy. Obviously I don't do drugs, and hardly drink.
The pregnancy comment has really stuck with me because I am trying to conceive.
I guess I am looking for some words to settle my mind, I worry they will sack me for me becoming pregnant, although I am not planning on telling them and using annual leave for any appointments/scans because I wont be able to keep taking his remarks on the chin each time he makes them. Because it angers me, as no one - (our manager) says anything.
I work with one older lady (75!) who has never had nor wanted children - the HR lady hasn't had any children as she was career minded...so I don't really feel like I have any female support.
I am doing really well at this company and wish to stay and return after having a baby. But I do worry I wont have any support during/after pregnancy.
Has anyone been in a similar situation?
Thanks in advance.
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TinyWishes · 10/12/2014 11:34
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