Single mum to 2 dc (10 and 3) Live with mum but doing house up in same street, hopefully be in about 3 months time.
3 dc goes c/minders 10-3 when at work in week.
10 dc takes himself to and from school (just round corner)
3 dc goes to dads alt w/end sat 9am till sun 1730
10 dc goes to dads tue/wed one week and tues/sat next
My mum looks after kids outside these hours, but getting increasingly tired and shouldn't have to look after my kids. They are a handful.
Work 12.5 hr shifts (7-1930) should be 37.5hrs a week (about 3 shifts for 3 weeks then 4 shifts for one week).
However, this week I work 53.5hrs next week 34.5, so its random. Also, junior manager role so stay several hours over to complete paperwork etc.
Boss is totally unapproachable, thoughtless and downright scary. Last two junior managers have been reallocated areas as she couldn't tolerate them.
I just kiss ass to the extent its nauseating, work overtime, stay late etc etc
May be due for retirement soon, hits 60 this year I think.
Problem:
I need to stop my mum from looking after my kids, end of!!
Childminder is excellent I can drop 3dc off at 0630 but she stops working at 1800 also doesn't work b/hols, w/ends, xmas and has hols herself (tut tut)
I don't really want my child going for that long tho!!! Even when she starts school it will be cheaper but still a long day for her.
Also, despite my manager being a t@@@t I love my job and wouldn't mind having a crack at hers when the time comes. May be able to work 8-4pm mostly. But not sure I can wait.
I earn about £30000 a year and don't think I can drop this. I wouldn't be able to keep my house (children's inheritance) Also their fathers do not have 2 beans to rub together (I get zilch off one and £20 p/week from the other) I would like to be able to support my kids through schooling etc.
What to do????
Do I leave and work for agency, sounds nice in some ways I can work round all kids hols but will still would have to work loads to make my money and shift work normally starts at 0700 so would still mean lots of childcare. No stability, friends etc
Or do I stay and pay loads of childcare, I can book some hols off but not all of august and xmas we are not allowed hols at all
HELP and thank you
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Jogrighton · 23/10/2014 10:30
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