How to Say "No".....

[BaconAndAvocado]

I currently work 2 days a week as a teacher, on a supply basis and also do the odd extra day here and there to cover illness, courses etc.

I have 2 young children (4 and 6) so I feel very lucky to have these hours as they allow me to do the school run for,the majority of the week whilst also bringing in some cash and doing a job I enjoy.

Last week my head teacher offered me more hours which would mean I would be full time bar 3 afternoons. When she initially asked me I was a bit shocked and asked if I could have a few days to think about it.

I've decided that I want to stick to my 2 days for the time being.

How do I say "no" without seeming like a wimp? And also without wanting to rule out any increase in hours in the future?

Thank you.

[BaconAndAvocado]

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[Rockchick1984]

Just be honest "at present I couldn't commit to so many hours on a regular basis, however I appreciate the flexibility of the additional days supply I do for you, and when my children are a bit older I would definitely consider increasing my hours"

[Chottie]

If you don't want to do it, don't. TBH, the HT could just be sounding you out, supposing you did want extra hours and she didn't ask you?

[BaconAndAvocado]

Thanks

I sometimes find it hard to say "no" and can take on too much. I will be assertive yet appreciative of the offer.

[compoundinterest]

"Thank you for your offer. I love my job / work/life balance under the current arrangements and presently don't want to up my hours. I'd be happy to review the situation in one, two, three, four, five years time...."

[BaconAndAvocado]

Thanks all again for great advice.

Meeting went well. Head teacher was very understanding and said she would ask me again in a few years when the time was right.

I've stuck to my 2 days and I'm so relieved

Happy Easter!