My parents, who are separated, live in the same city as my dsis and her dd6. I live 100 miles away and don't drive. How can I pull my weight more on a daily basis? Short of relocating, what things do primary careers appreciate that help them share the load?
For background:
My dm's 65, has mobility issues and is very lonely so calls and texts my dsis all day everyday. She won't accept any offers of book groups, charity volunteering etc so my dsis is her only outlet. (For some reason she never rings me, though I call her and df every other day). She's reliant on my dsis for all hospital and shopping trips.
df is 72 and is being treated for cancer. He's normally v fit, independent, has a social life, but now my sis has to take him to all his appointments.
What with her dh's dad also being ill, she's shattered.
Im coming up for a week so she can take a holiday and I can look after them. But that can't happen all the time as I work, (plus I'd be staying with my dm and we'd clash within minutes if I didn't bite my lip.)
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Lemond1fficult · 24/08/2016 16:49
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