I am very frustrated with Social Services and the GP. Brief back story - my mum lives alone about half an hour away from me. Our relationship has pretty much broken down but as I am her only relative in this country I am responsible for her care. She is 83.
She has a terrible personal hygiene issue, has been noticed by lots of people and has got worse over the last year or two. Her house is pretty much uninhabitable. She won't let me (or anyone else) in but from the neighbours house, mould can be seen inside her windows. Front and back gardens are completely overgrown, there is moss and ivy growing on the windows and on her old car kept in the driveway. She won't let anyone in or accept any help. She has a hoarding issue. I could go on. The postman was concerned recently as he couldn't get the mail in the letter box and there was a terrible smell coming from the house itself.
Social services and mental health have been involved on and off for the past decade but keep signing her off as she appears to be of sound mind and is refusing help.
Last week I phoned the police 101 number and requested a welfare check as no-one had seen her for some time. They went round and spoke to her through the letterbox but wouldn't open the door. They said they didn't have authority to gain access against her will.
I spoke to her GP today, they said they will speak to her this week and decide if further steps need to be taken.
I am so frustrated with the system. It seems that old people are allowed to live like this in squalid conditions with many many risks to them.
So my questions - how and why do people get sectioned? Suppose they are NOT of sound mind but refuse to co-operate with medical professionals? How can their mental health be assessed? I imagine she will say to the GP (as she said to the police) that she is 'fine' But she's not. If she had an accident, no-one would know.
Any advice please?
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Dancergirl · 25/01/2016 18:59
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