MIL had a fall/ faint outside the supermarket when we were away at half term (not sure of the details as she went to hospital and the report hasn't got back to her GP yet). We only found out about it because my DM phoned DMIL while we were away and she wouldnt agree to lie to us, as MIL didnt want us to know.
My DH has another 2 weeks off in the summer and wants to go away again with our 2 DSs. MIL lives alone, doesn't look after herself properly and has been in hospital several times in last 2 years following falls. She will not accept any outside help. She lives 50 miles away. DH is an only child.
Her best friend (81 years old) called me yesterday to say how worried she was about MIL. This gave me the idea about respite while we are on holiday. I would feel so much more relaxed knowing that MIL was safe and being looked after while we were out of the country. She can afford it but she is very stubborn and a heavy drinker. Should we even suggest the idea?
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AIBU to want respite for MIL while we are away?
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rara67 · 06/06/2015 11:38
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