Not really about caring for parents but more just needing to rant and get something off my chest.
My mother has really annoyed/upset me today.
My dd is expecting her first baby and today her friend held a Baby Shower for her at my house. The invitations went out 8 weeks ago and Mum accepted. I arranged for another friend who was coming to collect Mum ( she no longer is allowed to drive). All fine.
Friday I took mum to another appt and she said my sister had invited her to Sunday dinner at 4pm. Baby shower is 2-5 and Mum knew this.
So I said " so you'll have to tell her you can't come because it's Beccy's baby shower" and she agreed and said she would phone my sister and cancel.
My sister was invited but declined saying she was busy.
Mum arrives with my friend who says " you do know we are leaving early cos your mum us going to dinner at your sisters?" This friend know exactly what my mum is like!!!
I asked mum why she hadn't cancelled dinner at my sister and she completely blanked me!!! If I'd kept on it would have caused a scene so left it.
Why the hell can't she put me and my family first just fucking ONCE??she had a long standing arrangement and just dumped my daughters party to go to my sisters for a Sunday roast! Its also my dd's 21st birthday tomorrow so would have been nice for mum to actually spend time here.
I'm so bloody annoyed and upset.
And my sister KNEW it was the baby shower today and she had declined the invite!
Actually I'm more than bloody annoyed I'm raging!
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kansasmum · 22/03/2015 20:29
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