Mum is 89yo with very poor mobility, incontinence but no other health problems. She had a fall, ended up in hospital with a sprained ankle and is now in an Nhs off site bed in a nursing home for physio rehab. During the week when she has the physio she makes some progress and is aiming to build up her walking to be able to go back home, which is all she really wants. The physios haven't been very positive, and I do feel that it's unlikely that her mobility will improve very much at all.
The home is okayish but I feel upset to see her having to wait a long time for a nurse to come and help her to the loo as she can't do so unassisted. She's not very assertive, and doesn't like to make a fuss, and I feel she's been forgotten about.
She's only been in the home for 10 days, and I know that it's early days, but I'm at a loss what I can do. My sister's made a knee jerk reaction, saying she wants her to come home as her carers can look after her (she's been having four lots of care at home a day), but in doing so I worry that she's missing out on the rehab, which could potentially help her...
Any advice would be really helpful...
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Allfurcoatandnoknickers · 14/09/2014 21:03
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