I've posted about my father before, he's 82 and not only has dementia but is now registered blind. I was his carer for a year and a glad until I just couldn't do it any more. So we found hi. A care home which was small, seemed friendly and the manager boasted about her expertise about working with people with visual impairments.
However it has not gone well. His biggest problem is that he still thinks he's living at home and although there's a toilet in his bedroom, he can't see it or remember it's there. So he has got into the habit of ( if he's not supervised) of wandering down the corridor and pissing/shitting in another ( female ) resident's bedroom. I've had numerous discussions with the care home to try and find a solution to this but they have recently said they are not willing to deal with this any more. So now I'm back to square one. I visited about 7 homes, some of which weren't suitable and one that wouldn't take him.
I just don't know what to do...
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Oh fuck, my dad's care home have said they don't want him any more...
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Scarletohello · 04/08/2014 20:36
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