My Grandmother has had a severe stroke, leaving her incontinent, unable to speak, unable to move and unable to eat except through a nasal feeding tube. She has been in hospital for three weeks and there has been no improvement. They are now saying that they can do nothing more for her and she needs to leave hospital and go into a home that can care for her 24/7.
She has no liquid money of her own apart from a house that is worth about £90K or a little less. The house next door to her has been on the market for 3 years with no sale (it is a very rough area with frequent robberies and crimes), so even if we were to put her house up for sale, I doubt we would get it sold in time to pay for this round-the-lock care.
What are our options? Has anyone experienced this before?
She has made it clear to us that if she was ever in this state she would not want to be alive anymore. But obviously now we are in this position, we do not know what the options are.
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She can't eat, move or speak. Don't know what to do next
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Hedgehead · 20/02/2014 22:50
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