My aunt has some form of dementia, not yet diagnosed properly. She has become really suspicious of people which isn't like her former self.
She won't have carers because they are all out to steal what they can, apparently, and has accused the gardener of theft (not to his face, fortunately). When the things he was supposed to have stolen turned up, clearly moved by her, she claimed he had put them back out of guilt.
A cousin and I have POA and she's been happy with this for years, but is now starting to suggest that we are playing off against each other - we're not - or are keeping her from her money. She also thinks the bank have taken her money and she can't get it out again. We have no idea where this has come from, she can't explain it to us.
Is this common or normal?
PS Hello to everyone here, I have a feeling I'll be on the Elderly Parents threads a lot from now on. Sympathies to everyone else coping with elderly relatives.
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Being suspicious of other people - is this common with dementia?
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MiddleAgeMiddleEngland · 17/12/2013 22:06
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