Hi, My partner is from an E. European country. His parents are getting old and developing health problems. He announced the other day that "we might have to move there". I have never liked visiting there, can't speak the language and the only job I could take would be teaching English... What he is suggesting could put us there for years if not decades! His reasoning is that there is no "safety net" there for social care, and they would not be treated here by the NHS. We have a 2 year old son. Am I in the wrong for saying I just can not do this? I won't sacrifice so much of my life for his parents. What would others do in this situation? I guess I am asking for a sanity check!
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Partner asking that we move to his home country to care for his parents
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Shauna35 · 14/04/2013 10:11
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