hi, can anyone offer some advice please. my father has become besotted with his carer(she lives in) he lived alone before this. it seems she has complete control over him and consequently, he is now signing blank cheques left right and centre so money is disappearing (lots of it) and a new car has appeared etc. In the last year she has been on holiday and met a man who she has now married and now also living in the house although he has had to go back and she is now trying to get him back in the country. any ideas pls, it's a nightmare. we of course don't trust her but he won't have a bad word said against her. he is physically not well but mentally fine apart from very difficult. she has threatened over the past couple of years that she would sue us if we tried to sack her and she is going to get the house when he dies amongst other stuff. there are 5 siblings in total so we can all pitch in. thanks
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