Bear with me, this might be long, but want to explain it all...
2 months ago, my Dad (85) fell and broke his hip. Although I live in another country, I've been over here (UK) caring for him during his recovery. He's done brilliantly, but one thing I'm noticing is that he's not eating as he did before the accident. He used to start the day with cereal and fruit juice, then he'd have something at lunchtime - often crumpets - and then a dinner in the evening, possibly followed by a bar of chocolate, or cheese and biscuits. Now, he's not eating breakfast until later in the day (maybe 10, 10.30?), most days it's still cereal, although he's quite partial to an egg and bacon with toast if I cook it for him - but that's now it until dinner time, when he doesn't seem to be able to eat a normal quantity of food - he eats perhaps 2/3rds of what he used to.
He's lost half a stone since since falling (I'm weighing him once a week), and his weight seems to be remaining steady - but this is in the context of rather excessive alcohol indulgence (he's been drinking far too much for the past 10 years, but he was diagnosed with Stage 4 prostate cancer 10 years ago, so I reckon he's entitled to have a few drinks if it makes him happy), so I can't really judge his nutritional intake, as such.
We've got a Dr's appointment on Monday, so I'll be mentioning this, but wondered if anyone else with an elderly parent has experienced something similar - I don't want to start pushing food at him that he doesn't want, but at the same time I'm concerned about the change in eating habits, and wondering if it has any significance? He keeps saying he's full - which worries me.
Anyone got any input?
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Father's decreasing appetite - advice?
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FurryDogMother · 16/11/2012 19:08
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