Sorry have changed name for this as really embarrased to post esp today but am so stressed am not going to sleep if dont get it off my chest.
kids go to prep school that goes up to yr 8, ds1 is in yr7 and has spent his entire life at school grooming himself to be head boy or house captain. He is totally self driven (would never forsee this sitn with other 2!). He is polite/responsible/top of yr academically-by a long way/enthusiastic but terrible at sport. Every other thing he could possibly do he has done-choir/orchestra/brass group/chapel reader/lead role in school play/debating team etc etc, he has won a form prize every yr since yr 3 (first possible yr) and whenever staff have wanted some one responsible to do something-they have asked him (see why I changed my name-feel bad even saying this but true). Normally they have a head boy and 2 heads for each house-one sporty and one academic/musical, this yr as its a small yr, they have only had one head per house and have chosen a sporty boy thats not even well behaved (head boy is son of member of staff-hmmmmm) for his house. He kept it together at school-got in the car and burst into tears and has been so sad/tearful since. Its so hard because he is so adult in his thinking that I can completely understand what he says and how he feels but hes only a little boy really and he's breaking my heart. Am so cross with school that I want to deck the headmaster tomorrow-and its the last day so little time to do anything-not that I could anyway. Just feel school is saying-sod behaviour and hard work all we care about is sport and how popular you are. Please dont flame me and sorry again about posting today-very minor problem compared to others I know but I am so sad for him
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Anonyalphamom · 07/07/2005 21:41
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