To all mumsnetters please help with the following problem
My ds1 who has always enjoyed school and does well started saying last term he did not want to go ant more - it was boring and they did the same stuff over and over again, every morning we have a long protracted converstaion on why he has to go to school and so far I have not had to drag him down the street.
His assesment scores have dropped from 4c at the end of year 3 to 3b in the first term of year 4.
I have been to see his teacher on 3 occasions
firstly we thought it may be he felt he had no competition and asked her to mark his work harder she has done this but it has made little difference.
But the last two times she says this is the nature of the national currculum - it is repetitive but DS will just have to cope with it + he does not always get all his work right. I said he used to and he is bored and cannot be bothered any more. Plus I said in yr 1 and 2 he was in extenision groups for maths for those who were gifted and talented - could he not get this in year 4. THe teacher said staff time was a problem.
What could I or my sons teacher do to help him?
Am I expecting too much?
Is their anything I can specifically ask for?
I am really worried that ds has stagnated and I will eventually be unable to persuade him to attend school at all.
- I know it is not bullying that was my first thought but I have ruled it out.
Hope this makes sense