This is not an invitation to discuss the merits of 'Private/State' schools, just a post-traumatic download.
We've applied to four schools for DD1 (3.5 yo)- state primary, non-selective private and two selective private ones. The non-selective private one is probably our first choice, but we've decided to plough ahead with the assessments for the two private selective schools on a 'we've paid for it and might as well keep all options open basis'. So this morning we went along to Selective School #1, for DD1's "individual assessment". We were given a form a few weeks ago, to be completed and submitted before the assessment, including a picture to be coloured in and a box in which DD1 was supposed to do a drawing. Have you ever tried to make a 3 year old draw a picture of a particular subject in a box on a form? No. Then don't. It necessarily involves shouting, bribes and threats. At 11pm last night I came very close to grabbing the crayons in my left fist and doing the colouring and drawing myself. Only the craven fear of being found out stopped me!
DD1 and I have had lots of cosy chats about what was going to happen at the assessment ('special playgroup') and how fun it was going to be, but when the moment came this morning for DD1 to leave me and be dragged off by the receptionist for her interview, she started to cry. I came within a whisker of chasing after her, pulling her into my arms and fleeing the school screaming "For God's sake, she's three." But I didn't. I wish I had, because when I picked her up an hour later after her FOUR one on one interviews, she was silent and sad.
I'd be startled if she were offered a place. I'd be even more startled if we accepted it. I should never have asked her to do it.
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