Hi
My youngest son is January born, so I have a choice of 'holding him back' for one year if I wish. He is bright and keen to go to school like his big brother (P2). However I know parents who are holding back because they are convinced that sending boys (not so adamant with girls) harms their development/education when they are at secondary. My son is going to be tall for his age, I just can't decide whether to make him the eldest or youngest in his class! Not too worried about him coping in Primary school, more concered about what friends say about teenage boys who are youngest. Also, it will increase the separation between him & his brother if I hold back - P4/P1 instead of P3/P1 etc.
Does anyone have experience, particulary in the Scottish system, of BOYS who have been held back a year who are now in Secondary education? Or Jan birthdays who weren't? Do you wish you had made a different choice? Do you think it has aided/hindered them both socially and educationally?
I'm getting quite concerned about this, it isn't a decision I realised I would have to make! I really would like to find something concrete about how it affects boys to be held back or not at Primary when they are older. Does anyone know of any offical sites where I can get some statistics or something?! I know all kids are different, but it must make some sort of difference or the choice wouldn't be there!
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Badger7 · 09/09/2004 14:14
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