My mum asked me for help with this and tbh I don't really have much idea so I'm hoping mnetters can come to the rescue. Her neighbour, W, has a little boy of 10, J. W is lovely but very 'slow'. She had an awful childhood and I think would be diagnosed as having special needs today. (My mum has to go to the dr with W as she often doesn't understand what the dr says to her or she gets overwhelmed, that kind of thing)
J is 10 and W is concerned that he is falling behind in his development. He's small for his age and eats very badly, only junk food, really. More worrying is that he doesn't seem interested in the usual things a 10yo might do. He spends his time watching cartoons and Tweenies type TV and his only friend is just 6yo. He shows no interest in life at all, doesn't like playing or books or going out or anything and is very babyish, wanting his mum to be with him 24/7. He seems to be okay-ish at school in that they aren't concerned about his work, so I don't think he has SN. W is getting very worried about J but because of her problems she finds it hard to do anything about it. Dad is pretty useless - he thinks the school should raise J so refuses to do anything to help.
Imo W needs to be much stricter with J, for a start but because of her personality, she just isn't capable of implementing that kind of thing. I'd really like to help as W is lovely to my mum, rings her every morning to make sure she's okay, runs errands for her and is very kind hearted. So, over to you, Mumsnetters.
PS will also post in the SN section.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Join the discussion on our Education forum.
Education
Help needed for a 10yo boy who isn't thriving.
9 replies
suedonim · 01/09/2004 18:43
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.