... he can't swim yet. Do I let him stop or do I tell him it's a non-negotiable?
I can't understand it, he's loved swimming right from the word go although progress has been slow.
Last week, he decided (fully changed) that his hand was too hurty to swim (cracked from the cold) and tearfully asked to go home. So a big issue wasn't made about it, I took him home (only for him to get upset on the way back - he'd changed his mind and wanted to swim - by that time it was too late).
This week, he refused again to go (but not due to his hand now as this as healed - just said he didn't like swimming - news to me!), was crying into my shoulder in the changing rooms and had to be coaxed into the water (it wasn't his usual teacher either which was a pain - I did mention it to him that ds1 was upset about going in, so the teacher was sympathetic).
Once he was in, he enjoyed himself, but he's still adamant that he doesn't want to go again so I'm really not sure what's going on.
On the one hand, I kind of view swimming as a really important skill to have. I don't know whether I should just be saying this is a compulsory class.
On the other hand, classes are expensive, it's a good 40 minute drive away and if he's going to refuse every time it's going to get very very stressful.
If we quit now and he changes his mind then it could be a long wait to get back into a class again.
Heeeeeeeeeeelp....
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RubberDuck · 31/01/2007 19:40
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