I've NC for this because I've talked about Secondary Schools in my area quite often and don't want people to recognise me.
I think this post is just about having a bit of a rant (and wondering if anyone else has had similar)
My dd attends a primary school that is literally a minute down the road from a secondary. Because of this the schools have strong ties and our primary is naturally a 'feeder' for it. While it's not the worst school in the world, it's by no means the best and it's often listed in our local paper as being one of the worst in our city.
So when we chose secondary schools last October, dd and I looked round loads of schools (including the feeder one). We eventually applied for and got a place at a different school just a bit further away.
Since then I've had lots of negatives comments from parents who didn't look anywhere else and believe the children should all attend the feeder secondary. Many of the parents attended this school themselves as children. I've had comments in the playground asking me to explain why she's going elsewhere, what didn't I like about the Feeder school, I've had passive aggressive texts telling me they are 'sorry' for my decision, that my child is no longer a part of the community. I've had people FB message me with anecdotes that their cousins, sister's friends nephew went there and it was awful etc. They could tell me horror stories etc.
It subsided for a while, but now little comments have started again.
I'll admit I'm a bit like a sponge who takes in a lot of people's views. I have suffered from anxiety in the past but I'm pretty sure, or was sure, that I'm better now. However this transition to secondary school is flipping me out and these people aren't helping. My dd seems fine with it all. It's not really her that gets the comments (although a few children have been a bit catty).
I know in the scheme of things this doesn't matter one bit and she'll be leaving in a few weeks. However my son is in Y5 soon and I really don't want to experience this again.
Has anyone else had this? It's like some kind of reverse snobbery and/or pack mentality. I just cannot understand why they give a shiny shit where my child goes to school??
(Rant over. Thanks for that I feel better now)
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Negative attitude towards dd as she's not going to 'Feeder' Secondary.
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OkLumberjack · 05/07/2016 09:13
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