I'm looking for advice on reading to my 2.5 year old. Sorry, these are really basic questions! In order not to drip feed, DD was a late talker - but when I found out how to help her, she came on in leaps and bounds and she now speaks well. So I'm aware that my 'natural' way of doing things doesn't always work, and I want to make sure I do the right things for her.
DD has always enjoyed bedtime stories, but until very recently wasn't ever willing to look at books at other times. She has become more interested recently, and also likes slightly more complex books than before - although still simpler than other children her age seem to enjoy (I'm obviously happy for her to go at her own pace - but it flags to me that this needs attention) .
Is there anything I could or should be doing to encourage her love of books?
Things I worry we might be doing wrong:
- Do you restrict number of bedtime stories? We do 2 (occasionally 3) although she always wants more. I've assumed that's bedtime stalling, and that we should keep to our routine, but it's occurred to me recently that maybe that isn't very encouraging! As I say, until recently she's always refused stories at other times of the day. Now we sometimes read stories in bed in the morning, and the occasional one in the daytime too (in the daytime I keep reading until she loses interest). Would you stick to the strict number at bedtime?
- I know you're meant to talk to them about what you're reading - but how much should I do this? DD tends to get quite obsessed with a book, so we'll read it over and over again for a month or two until the obsession suddenly disappears. I usually explain things the first couple of readings, and then just read the story. Do you continue to explain and talk about things on the nth reading? And do you explain the same things, or try to vary it?
- Do you go with the flow with DCs obsessions? I do alternate reading the book of the moment with ones that I choose (which she is fine with) but I still get a bit fed up of the favourite book after a while, and I suspect that comes across when I try (and fail) to hide the book
- I know it's meant to be important for them to see you reading. DH and I both love reading, but it's usually after she goes to bed, and even then often on Kindle. How important is this, and should we try to change it?
Thanks for any advice, and for reading such a long post!