Ds is 8yo. He has just been through the selection process for a boarding prep school and has been offered a place. He's not sure about it: he loves his current school and when he spent a day at the potential new school he said the lessons were like y2 lessons. However, ds really likes his music to the point of being obsessed and the new school is fantastic in this respect.
It will be very hard for us to pay the fees but we can do it in theory if we are very frugal. We don't have to pay full fees so it would be "only" around 10k pa. But then it's not as if we can find that sort of money down the back of the sofa...
I'm not sure what to do. The music would be fab for ds and he'd love that. But he's happy now. He might always resent it if we didn't take the opportunity. But it will be really hard financially if we do. And is it worth paying such a huge chunk of the family income so ds can do lots of music?
I think the new school is probably similar to his current (fantastic state) school in terms of academic standards. He'd finish in y8 and there is no chance we'd be able to send him to an independent school afterwards so we'd be trying to get him a place in a local school for y9.
And on top of this is the boarding. I'm sure he'd cope but I would miss him awfully. Now I have written this it seems all the arguments are pointing to keeping him at home. He won't have this opportunity again though - it is start this school at 8yo or nothing.
What to do?
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brushyourteethNOW · 10/03/2014 22:59
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