Wasn't really sure which section this should go in, but since its a school related problem I thought I'd try education.
Dd is 6 and getting on very well at school. She's bright, popular and actually a very nice girl. May sound conceited, but she really is an all round good egg.
Anyway there's a girl in her class who really likes my dd and wants to be her friend to the exclusion of everyone else. Dd likes her enough, but wants to be friends with lots of children. She also finds her a bit irritating, she's extremely babyish and totally spoilt. Now the problem is she keeps telling tales to the teacher about dd. For example, a group of them may be playing a game, this girl comes along and tell dd she wants to play something else. If dd says she doesn't want to play that, then the girl goes and tells the teacher my dd won't play with her. She also tells her mum who then comes to school and says my dd is being mean and won't play with her. I spoke to the mother some time ago about it and thought things were sorted. But then yesterday when this mum went into school to help 3 of the girls (dd included) said something which this child told the teacher they were being rude about her mum. It was quite untrue, but it is really getting me down. Whenever my daughter gets told off at school, its always got something to do with this child. I'm also fed up with this mother always coming straight in to moan about it without getting dd's side of the story.
Not really sure if all this makes sense, but hope someone can help. I really don't want this woman telling her friends my daughter is a nasty bully.
It is mainly my dd, but there are a couple of other children who seem to be picked on. I thought this woman was a friend and feel I could talk to her, but not really sure what to say.
Anyone able to give a bit of advice please
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Telling tales to teacher
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Posey · 28/01/2004 20:43
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