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We've recently had Caldicott recommended to us because we're told it has a good academic record (without being a scary hothouse) as well as a good learning support team. Our DS (age 10) is dyslexic and we've been advised that he needs a school that doesn't dumb down (his current one does a bit) but that also copes with a range of abilities and can provide him with support when he needs it.

Can anyone comment on this?
Any advice MUCH appreciated.
Thanks!

Take a look at Lambrook School (flexi-boarding and day).

Their Learning Support is covered in the Curriculum section.

It's absolutely a mainstream prep school but I know they pride themselves on their LS.

I only mention Lambrook because it is 30 mins (12 miles) from Caldicott - so it could be an option geographically.

I should think Caldicott has darn good learning support considering the results they get with a non-selective intake.

I take it you are fine with the compulsory boarding as you wouln't be considering it otherwise. I loved it when I went round and DH has taught some of their leavers and says they have been lovely, well educated boys.

That said, we have chosen Lambrook.

good grief did they not shut that place down?

Which place, Goralka?

Caldicott School

People will mean this but it is unfair to taint somewhere with what went before.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=RipR6yFXD44&feature=related
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZA3Fhit-nn4
www.chosen.org.uk/comments

I cannot find the whole thing.

There's recently been a case at Wellington- maybe they should close down too.

Historically many others sadly and we mustn't forget most child abuse is parents at home, not children with scout masters, teachers or vicars. I only posted the link as someone was asking.

I do as a parent like my children here home each night.

Seems like a 2008 documentary based on the 1960s and 1970s?

Precis:

www.chosen.org.uk/assets/docs/times_25_09_08.pdf

This happened at LOTS of schools in that period.

with the headmaster involved in a paedophile ring, really? lots?
not one case of abuse, but systematic over decades inclusionist.

Caldicott does get good results. Just make sure they don't ease out those that need learning support in the years leading up to CE as happens in some non selectives.

I have two boys at Caldicott and it has been the making of them. I agree with Xenia (although I dont agree with her views on boarding!) the abuse to watch out for is at home.

And something that happened over 30 yrs ago is not relevant for the boys that are there now. Boys now know their rights, there is Childline and outside counsellors that the boys can ring. Something that really wasnt around years ago.

I hate this abuse of power, whether it be teachers or priests. But times have changed.

Times have not changed in the sense that children are never abused. Children are abused every day including at modern boarding schools BUT there is no evidence Caldicott has any of that currently going on. It just has that appalling reputation that sadly everyone now associates it with when the name is given and it did last there for a very long time. It was one of the worst.

The "Making of them" in the context of whether boarding is good or bad is a rather unfortunate phrase - the title of the book of the Boarding School Survivors Association. www.boardingschoolsurvivors.co.uk/

However as I said above most children are abused by parents and those at home not schools and secondly the stuff at Caldicott as far as we can ever know about any school is not happening now. I only interceded above as someone seemed not to have known what the oblique reference was to the school and there are many others.

I found this en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caldicott_School which provides further relevant information to your postings.

Nick Clegg went to Caldicott.

To ensure fairness I should add that Cameron went to Heatherdown prep school. It closed in the eighties. Its site is now the Licensed Victuallers School in Ascot.

I am a past pupil of Caldicott school and have for the past four years been trying to seek justice through our judicial system. As a 9 year old boy I was passed from teacher to teacher for their sexual gratification . This all took place whilst my parents felt their son was being cared for. I now know that I was not at fault or the only person whom they abused. The pupils in the documentary " The Chosen" attended the school 10 years prior myself. This has been generational abuse. I have no idea what is going on in Caldicott currently, but would never take the risk of sending my son there. In November last year I managed to gain a conviction of a five year sentence for one of my past teachers at Caldicott, and am preparing to go south for the trial of another of my past teachers at Caldicott. The strange thing that has made me post is that the man who received the 5 year sentence was my teacher whom gave me one to one support for my dyslexia. I urge all on this site, to ask all the awkward questions to the powers that be in all your children's schools. Don't presume that if they have a child protection policy , that it has any validity. Your children deserve to be safe and the opportunity to enjoy their school days, and not just survive . I have not only have gone against my abusers but also the code of public school education. We should never wash our dirty laundry in public. This was the ethos I was taught. I do hope that all of your children are safe and get the opportunity to enjoy their childhoods.

I have just looked out my school years photos . Nick Clegg was a good friend of mine and yes he did attended Caldicott as did Miriam and Tom Stoppard's son, Mary Berry's son, Sir John Mills grandson etc etc all attended during my time at Caldicott. This was a school that was the school to be at if you wanted your child to enter one of the top public school in the U.K.
My poor Mother whom is now 82 is trying to deal with what happened at this school.

Pastpublicschoolboy, so sorry about what you had to endure. One day someone will write a fascinating book about (boarding) prep school masters. It's a curious vocation but I've met some brilliant people doing it and some decidedly dodgy ones. But maybe the brilliant ones are dodgy and vice versa...

Thanks Dodgy, there are some truly gifted teachers in all types of school. Because my parents wanted the best education they could afford for me , they chose Caldicott. They were expats and so I was entrusted to board at the age of seven. I hadn't been there long before I was targeted by several adults. This continued till I passed c.e. and left for public school at thirteen and half.
I know have a mother of 82 racked with guilt that they sent me there and never picked up the fact that I was being raped by teachers. I urge you all to look for the really subtle signs of abuse,and don't be scared to ask difficult questions at your kids schools. There is currently a news black out on the current cases proceeding, but it will become apparent the level of abuse over several generations that has taken place there. The past headmaster still lives less than 100 yards from the school . Hopefully after April the press will report on this travesty of justice.