Having gone to really bad schools, would do all of the above.
As anteater says, money can get you things, but that's neither necessary nor sufficient, nor indeed an option for most people.
We reviewed several private schools for the gang of two, and they varied quite a lot.
But are we all talking about the same thing here ?
With all due respect, I'd guess around 10-15% of parents are personally able to judge the quality of a school with any accuracy.
Is it not the case that in truth we're talking of avoiding crap schools ?
The only reasonable argument I've heard for banning private education is that it would make middle class parents actually do something about the large number of schools that are simply not fit for purpose.
Some schools put out pictures of local drug dealers to warn parents. But of course they are in working class areas, so the only police action is to threaten the schools under the data protection act.
A sit in protest at the local nick might well embarrass them into action.
But look at how the media responded to people on working class estates who realised that they had become dumping grounds for convicted paedophiles being released into the community on the grounds that they "probably" wouldn't reoffend "much".
The middle class arts grads wrote articles about how poor their spelling was on the placards. I studied insurrections, varying from Gandhi’s India to Free Luna, and am a trained (though not very competent) journalist. Most people on a council estate don’t have access to that, so they get crap schools.
Forgive my language, but the father of one of my godchildren endured financial hardship to ensure that "his kid didn’t grow up talking like a nigger". Would have been racist but he's black. Schools in East London fail in the basic task of teaching kids that have been born here the ability to speak in a way that allows them to be understood, much less impress at a job interview.
But they get taught about 117 religious festivals of different faiths, so that's all right then,
The correlation between parental income and university is horribly high. Thus you are forced to either accept that poor kids are stupid, or that a decade of a Labour government has done little to address social inequity.
The response is “social engineering” where popular universities are forced to try and compensate for the failings of the state system, by making allowances.
The pay of state teachers for hard subjects is simply too low to attract good candidates, unless they really want to be teachers, and even earning 1/5 of what less smart people get is not a nice thing.
Middle class people like me can work the system and/or buy a new house, and I can bluff theology of Christianity well enough, and would take a positive delight in using lies against evil.
But that's not a good system is it ?