My ds has started reception class this year and two weeks ago i had a parent approach me in the playground saying that the teacher had had a word with her about her son and mine fighting. As i work he goes to the after school club and therefore i dont see the teacher in the evenings and i explained that was probably why the teacher hadnt yet mentioned this to me. The parent must have been upset that i was unaware of it and mentioned it to the teacher as when i went to collect ds one day the teacher had waited late and said " i believe you have been speaking to so and sos mother"....ok so i found all this a bit odd as i thought the teacher had caused the other parent some upset by mentioning names which led to her approaching me...are teachers allowed to do this?? I would think she would treat it confidentially so that the matter could be dealt with properly.
Today i had a letter in my sons bag mentioning him fighting with this other boy with knives from the home corner and that i should talk to him about it as weapons are not allowed in school....although she did state that he was the one to walk away (which i keep telling him to do)
Sorry to ramble but am i overreacting or is she making a bigger issue out of it? My ds has said this other boy is always in the headmasters office for misbehaving...although my son is definately no angel!
I have spoken to a few other parents who have said she has had a word with them for their children being too boistrous too!
Any advice what i should do? I have spoken to my ds numerous times and he understands that it is wrong to fight but how can i stop an argument between two children when i am not there?
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mrsdil · 11/10/2005 19:41
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