My 20yo son is seriously overweight and it is worrying me & DW to bits. The main problem - or, at least, the first hurdle - is that he won't talk to us about it. He seems to have accepted that he's fat, he has no friends that we know of, he never goes out.
He's home from university at the moment, spending 90% of his time in his bedroom, either asleep or on computer - though to be fair a lot of this is art-related, he's studying art and uses Photoshop a lot.
I'd say he weighs about 25 stone but it's hard to know exactly as he never weighs himself, he shuns all mention of weight problems, overeating or exercise. I wouldn't be surprised to find the real figure was more like 30. He's tall - 6ft2 - and naturally a 'big guy' built on a large scale; he could probably be fine at 16 or 17 stone.
He had a happy childhood - so good-natured and contented as a baby & toddler but has had the usual horrible experiences as a 'fat kid' at school, including bullying.
We have 2 other DSs, one older, one younger. Eldest DS is 22, was overweight too but is now normal weight after losing about 10 stones aged 18, which he did by counting calories. Youngest is 15, not overweight & never has been despite large appetite.
Does anyone have any success stories, especially re talking to their children and somehow breaking through the wall of resistance/indifference?
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How to help my overweight son?
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Oneeyedbloke · 01/08/2015 09:52
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