Does anyone have experience of children who secretly binge?
I'm a binge eater but mine was as the result of a rape when I was in my teens and I'm on the list to receive counselling.
My daughter is now 12 and ever since she was a baby I knew something wasn't right. She overrate as a baby and I questioned the health visitors who advised to feed until she was satisfied. I have asked doctors, desperate for help but not succeeding. I got the usual, educate her about nutrition and keep her active. This hasn't helped solve the problem of her using food though and once I wasnt 100% in control of her food and her days the weight went on as she could indulge.
I've found her evidence over the years and last week came to a head because I found recent evidence of a lot of binge eating. We talked, she knows I've had problems (doesn't know about the rape) and knows that it's causing her to lie and steal to continue. I told her I'm not angry or judging because I know how she feels. I just want to be able to help her realise when she does it, what she goes for and what prompts her to do it. I also said I was worried because she'd get better at hiding it now I knew but I wanted to help.
Yesterday, I discovered she'd bought a huge bar of chocolate on the way home from school. When I got home I asked her what she was doing in the shop and she said she was getting a drink (I didn't ask where the money came from). When asked if she bought anything else she lied and said no
I've spoken to pastoral care at her school and have changed doctors so we can get an appointment for her.
I'm so scared. I don't know what to do. I hope the new doctor is better than the previous one.
Does anyone else have any experience of children with this problem?
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My child is a secret eater
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Joysmum · 11/02/2015 14:34
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