Please help.
H and I are 38 and 35. 3 DC 10, 7 and 3.
For many reasons we wish to separate. He is being vile. He is refusing to leave. We rent our home. He says he can't afford to live alone. I could afford it just, if the kids and I left and moved to a rental nearby, only just, with my income and the benefits increase I would get. He says I'm being selfish and that would he leaving him homeless.
What I would like to know is, if I find a rental nearby, how long do things like HB etc take to be paid/increased? I can't move in and have to wait ages to pay any rent/bills. I do have a job, but I would need slight benefit help if I was alone with my children.
I am desperate to get away. Please help.
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MummyIsMagic79 · 30/09/2016 14:36
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