Please be gentle. I am getting myself I a tailspin.
The father of my child became my ex in May and he will FINALLY be moving out in January. I have a new partner but obviously it is very early days and I don't want to involve him or rely on him financially at all.
I can't work out how I will pay my direct debits etc before my tax credits and HB kick in. I can't work out which way will be best. I will be coming off the joint account and using my own account for all bills and rent from January onwards.
Can someone help me please? I can't see the woods for the trees. Do I cancel the direct debits then start them again (barring the rent and council tax of course) once the benefits etc start paying?
I just can not get my head straight.
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winkywinkybumbum · 12/09/2016 22:10
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