Hi i am new to this so not sure if I am posting in the right section. In a nutshell I need some advice before I start divorce proceedings. I have been with my husband for 31 years and married for 28. In May I caught him cheating on me. I threw him out that day. He is now stating he wants half the saving, half the house proceeds and to keep his pension.
included in the savings was medical compensation. he knows i need the operation and has always said the money is mine not his. well that has now changed as he wants half of it. he earns double my earnings and intends to keep that as well. without writing too much where do i start with finances. I don't want to give him anything but know I have to. I know the staring point is 50/50 but I am sure i read somewhere that due to the length of the marriage this may not be the case. My standard of living should not drop?? Also his pension is worth 5 times more than mine although he laughs at me and says it not worth anything. would I be best to have a solicitor to work out the finances as I really don't know when it coms to pensions and current future salaries. He has always earnt more than me and still does.At present I am in the family home as my two kids are with me. They are both adults and no longer in education. Sadly they do not earn enough to rent let alone buy a place.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
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latitafbs · 07/09/2016 22:27
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